Who is the biggest influence in your life

When I was young, answering such questions was much simpler. It was actually a must-answer question at a certain age in our lives. I believe I have answered this a couple of times before. Naturally, the answer would be often relate to maturity and mental growth. For example, in the early years of childhood, the source of inspiration would undoubtedly be someone from the closest circle—most likely a family member. But now, after decades of reading and experiencing life, I might say, though not with certainty: everyone and no one.

Everyone is a compilation of complex life experiences that lead them to become the person they are now, a person who can still change based on life’s rapid cycles. Everyone has something to reflect on and to share, which could serve as inspiration for others. On the other hand, no one, because I have come to a point where I do not need to rely on others to move forward. I just need to focus on myself to be the best version of me and to avoid causing harm. At the same time, it is nearly impossible to protect ourselves entirely from external influences that damage our self-image and push us into red zones.

Reaching the red zones and venturing into dark areas of thought often compels us to go back and seek inspiration from certain people. It’s a reminder that, even when striving for independence, there are moments when external connections play a vital role in our journey.

Daily writing prompt

Who are the biggest influences in your life?

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